Monday, June 19, 2017

Planning for Summer with Kids

Summer Adventure With God
by Tidbits From a Teacher


               As a teacher/librarian, I love my summers, particularly when my children were young and at home.  Summer began with long days with my kids, but at the end of each day I felt as if I had accomplished nothing of significant value with my own children.  At school, I taught up to 150 students a day.  They left my library classroom excited to read, with a new discovery about their world, and thrilled with the adventure of learning.  What was wrong at home with mom/teacher?  No lesson plans!
               School required me to spend hours planning for the following week’s learning experiences.  Yet, I assumed that my summer days with my own children would magically produce the same results as what happened in my classroom.  My summer strategy became creative, fun, discovery lesson plans.  And summer has not been the same.  Lesson plans at school involved mental and physical exercises, review, technology, music, exciting discoveries, modeling, and practice; each week revolved around a theme.

               Lesson Plans for Summer 2016:

               The theme for our Summer became an “Everyday Adventure With God.”  It included several aspects:
1.      Mornings With Jesus
2.      Chores for the Day
3.      Service Project
4.      Educational Discovery
5.      Fun Activity

               Mornings With Jesus.  God invites us to be still and know He is God and to present our petitions and requests to Him (Psalm 46:10 and Philippians 4:6). These were times at breakfast where we read a short devotional from a summer devotional book and prayed over our day.  You could even keep a Summer Prayer Journal.  Write prayer requests as well as praises and answered prayers.  During this time, we committed our day, our activities, our actions, and our words to honor Jesus.

               Chores for the Day.  God created us for good works (Ephesians 2:10); we have the responsibility to teach our children the privilege of work.  Chores always included making our bed; dressing for the day; cleaning up after ourselves in the bedroom, bathroom, and kitchen.
                It could also include taking turns making breakfast, picnic lunch, and dinner.  It always included one big chore:  picking up sticks, cleaning out our closets, weeding through our toys, washing the dog or front porch, taking out the garbage, meal planning and grocery shopping, vacuuming or dusting, doing laundry, or scrubbing floors or bathrooms.  Preparing kids for the chore makes the chore easier to accomplish.  It also must be completed before the fun of the day begins. 

               Service Project:  God calls us not only to love Him but to love others.  Further, we are called to serve one another as good stewards of God’s gifts to us (1 Peter 4:10-11).  Our children will fall in love with serving others when we involve them in our service to others.  Brainstorm ways to serve others in your community:  visiting the elderly, yard work for someone unable to do it, clean someone’s house, take food to someone sick, pick-up garbage in your neighborhood, offer to watch someone else’s children, pick out a couple of your favorite toys to share with someone who has none, offer to help at church.  Service projects often require more than a day of your time.  But fully involve your children.  Make it exciting and fun!  Love on the people even as you serve them. 
               Educational Discovery.  “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2). Children love to learn.  They need to be taught to think and to use their minds wisely.  Make every opportunity a learning opportunity.
               Give children a budget for fun food at the grocery store.  Teach them to shop wisely.  Use Monopoly money or play money to reward your children.  Set a goal for a special treat with earned play money.  Teach delayed gratification:  you could buy this $5.00 toy with what you have earned or save $15.00 and go roller skating. 
               Pick a topic to study for the week in the area of science or social studies.  Science could include rain forests, ecosystems, gardening, crime scene investigation, animals and their habitats, weather.  Social studies could include government, history of places you will vacation, Native Americans from your area.  Look up National Geographic videos and Youtube videos on your study.  Go to the public library and discover more about your topic.  Create a mini-project that is age-appropriate for your children.  My kindergarten students are capable of completing an acrostic on R A I N F O R E S T, a characteristic of the rainforest for each letter.  Display your children’s project for others to see. 
               Check out and read books.  Give your children and yourself at least 30 minutes each day to read.  Reading increases memory, vocabulary, and information.  Make sure you check out both fiction and nonfiction.  Boys particularly like books of facts and information (nonfiction). 

               Fun Activity.  Teach your children to have fun in ways that cost little to no money.  All fun activities should involve physical activity.  Children need to play to learn how to socialize and to grow both gross motor and fine motor skills.  Take a hike, play at the park, bike ride, rollerskate, swim, play ball, play outside games. 
               Discover activities in your area by looking in papers, magazines, and on the internet.  There are caves to spelunk, trails to be hiked, fish to be caught, games to be taught and played.  Activities bond families together and make great memories. 
               Activity Ideas:
               Field Day – Invite families to join you in creating a Field Day for your kids.  Each family plans 2 – 3 Field Day activities.  Each game or activity is played one at a time; involve parents in the egg toss or relay.
               Water Sports – Have a water gun and water balloon war.  Invite the neighbors.  Set up teams.  The wettest team loses and serves the “water”melon. 
               Campout – Have a family or friend campout.  Have a campfire.  Have a mini-hayride in the back of a wagon or pickup truck. 
               Family Movie Night – Pick a family movie and watch it outside.  Fill the kiddy pool with ice and popsicles and drinks.  Serve fancy popcorn.
               Old-Fashioned Games – Teach your kids to play an outside game you played as a kid:  badminton, tennis, flashlight tag, croquet, kick-the-can. 
               Storytelling by a Bonfire – tell favorite stories by the bonfire or get a book on CD and listen outside.
               Stargazing – Lay out and watch the stars or fireworks. 
               Zoo Scavenger Hunt – Take pictures of specific animals at the zoo. 


               Hopefully, these ideas will get your creative juices pumping.  Share your ideas with other parents.  Make this a memorable summer.  Minimize technology unless you are using the internet for research or your phone for taking pictures.  Create a Summer Photo Journal about the Summer of 2016.  Every day is a gift from our Creator who shares His creativity with us.  Capture your children with an intentional relationship making the most of each moment. 
               “Be very careful then, how you live – not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil” (Ephesians 5:15-16).  God has charged us to raise our children well.  So many things vie for our children’s attention and affections. We have the privilege and responsibility to counter the culture.  It starts with wise planning. 





Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Responding to the Power of Jesus

 

 

Pastor Erik Reed spoke Sunday on the incomparably glorious power of JESUS.  He stated, “Encountering JESUS’ power exposes the condition of your heart.”

I desperately desire the power of JESUS in my life, but, to be honest, I never desire to be exposed.  Women spend hours preventing exposure.  We choose clothing that does not expose our body flaws.  We use make-up so that skin blemishes and wrinkles and our age will not be exposed.  We clean and conceal so that the true condition of our house will not be exposed.  And then, we overhaul our husbands and children so that they, and our inadequacies as wives and mothers, will not be exposed.

 

Then Pastor Erik spoke tenderly to my fear of exposure, “Jesus’ power is not to make your life safe but to make you His.” 

 

Somehow for me as a woman belonging to someone trumps everything - even my fear of exposure.  And to be reminded that my Creator - the Lord of the universe, the only one who has laid down His life for me at my worst – desires to make me His. 

 

During our response time after Pastor Erik’s sermon, I thought back to a season when I desperately cried out and sought JESUS’ power.  Someone I knew, loved, and trusted despised me, rejected me, broke my heart and my body, and abandoned me.  As I evaluated the fallout in my life and in the lives of others, I began to view myself as a victim. 

 

One night as I begged God for His power to change the circumstances and to deal with this person who threatened to destroy my life, God revealed to me the condition of my heart.  “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone.” (John 8:7) 

 

I put down my accusatory finger and confessed my fear and despair and changed my prayer.  I began to pray, “Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting” (Ps. 139:23, 24).  And JESUS’ power came through.  He exposed my problem, my sin, and walked me through a thorough cleansing.  Exposed and naked in my sin before a holy God, I was broken.  But He put His righteousness upon me and covered my nakedness and He made something beautiful out of the ash heap of my past.

 

That was fifteen years ago.  But today, fall 2014, I find myself at another crossroads that makes my past seem like a walk in the park.  As I cry for the power of JESUS, I know there is a cost – everything, exposure, even heart surgery by the Great Physician.  So my prayer today is, “Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.  Father, silence the enemy Satan who whispers lies and threatens me with despair.  Teach me to trust You and be more Yours because of this trial.  Reveal the sins that keep me from intimacy with You.  And may my hurting mother’s heart better understand the Abba heart of God.  May I be fully satisfied in the incomparably glorious JESUS.  Give me JESUS!” 


The Power of Jesus sermon by Erik Reed

Saturday, January 11, 2014


 

January 11, 2014
Prescription for Peace - Philippians 4:4-9
 
          On December 29, the pastor of The Journey, Lebanon, TN – Erik Reed spoke on pursuing godliness. 
          We are justified by the blood of Jesus Christ that He shed for our sins.  Yet, sanctification is for the believer.  It is the process of being transformed or growing in holiness; it is becoming more like Jesus. 
          Erik asked the question – what are you doing to close the gap in pursuing holiness – in being sanctified and becoming more like Jesus?
          Erik spoke about our labor and God’s work.
          Philippians 2:12 & 13 – “Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you both to will and to work for His good pleasure.”
 
     1.  We must work out our salvation with fear and trembling.
     2.  For it is God who works in you to will and to work for His good pleasure. 
          “We can rejoice in God’s empowering presence even as we work hard at living responsible Christian lives.” (ESV commentary)
          Last Sunday, Erik spoke on being content.  “Content,” he said, “means to be okay by yourself with who you are and what you have.”
          The enemy of contentment is coveting – wanting something you don’t have and believing it will bring you happiness.
          Philippians 4:10 – 13:  “I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me.  You were indeed concerned for me, but you had not opportunity.  Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.  I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound.  In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.  I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”
          Our longings are merely appetizers that point us to JESUS, the only one that can give us contentment.  When Jesus is our supreme treasure, nothing else satisfies. 
          What a great challenge: 
     1. To pursue holiness by hanging out with God and thus becoming like Him.
     2. And to find my contentment in Jesus Christ, the only one who can meet every need of my heart. 
          So as we look to a new year of pursuing holiness and finding our contentment in Christ alone, let’s turn to Galatians 5:22-23 and look for a minute at the fruit of the Spirit.
          Which fruit needs to be cultivated in your life?  Why?
          For me, the fruit I need is peace.  I realize that I struggle most with control.  I don’t desire control, but I take control when others do not follow through with their responsibilities (my perception).  I have teased my family for years saying that I often feel like a pinball in a pinball machine – being hit and repelled by the circumstances in my life and their lives. 
          Examples from 2013
  • Daughter goes to Africa as a missionary
  • Another daughter drops out of college because it was not working out
  • My dad gets sick
  • Daughter returns from Africa sick.  Several doctor visits and many tests costing lots of money reveal the problem 5 months later – a parasite
  • This daughter moves to CO
  • The family she moved to nanny for decides to move
  • Second daughter gets engaged
  • I live ½ time with my parents
  • Wedding plans with only 4 months to plan
  • Car breaks down
  • Pipes freeze
          Life brings anxiety, sleepless nights, lots of prayer, and, for many reasons, peace eludes me.  My world is too easily rocked by my circumstances rather than God’s shalom peace.  The Hebrew word shalom is more than peace; it is a complete peace involving contentment, well-being, wholeness. 
          Let’s look at Philippians 4:4-9:  “Rejoice in the LORD always; again I will say, rejoice.  Let your reasonableness be known to everyone.  The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God.  And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 
          Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.  What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me – practice these things and the God of peace will be with you.”
          I desire to “work out my salvation” and to make Jesus my supreme treasure.  I am praying that God will pry this little girl’s hands off the control of her life and the lives of others.  In 2014, I desire to pursue God’s peace.
          I thank God for His Word and prescription for life.  His prescription for peace.
                                Prescription for Peace:
  1. Rejoice!  The first word of Phil. 4:4.  I will daily, moment by moment REJOICE.  That word will be in my brain.  Rejoice needs to be more my disposition and first line of offense and defense.  Rejoicing is a response to my Creator God and Redeemer Jesus Christ.  It is based on His sovereignty.  The worse the circumstances, the more I should rejoice because I cannot control the situation; this is where God wants me to be – wholly dependent upon Him.  I choose to rejoice in His Godness in and through and over all situations. 
  2. Phil. 4:5 – “Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand.”  The NIV uses the word gentleness, translated reasonable, charitable, and fair-minded.  When I am not reasonable, nor gentle, I bowl over people.  My witness matters.  My response to life affects others.  My choice to take control rather than to submit to God’s control affects those in my path – believers and non-believers.  I must be still, seek God, trust Him, rejoice, and wait.  An attitude of peace matters. Because God is near and at work whether I see His hand or not. 
  3. Phil. 4:6 – I am “not to be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let my requests be made known to God.”  I must stop and pray.  Feeling anxious? Take a chill pill – time with God in serious prayer with rejoicing.  His answer: “The peace of God will guard my heart and my mind in Christ Jesus” (vs. 7).  Guard?  I will not be imprisoned by my anxiety or despair.  Christ Jesus will set a guard of peace around my heart and mind. . . if I will let Him.  May his vigilant peace establish a guard even as I sleep.
  4. Phil. 4:8 - Finally, I must take captive every thought and feeling.  “Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”  What am I allowing to fill my mind?  Problems?  Lies from TV, books, internet?  That which I cannot have?  The abuse/injustice/mistreatment from my past?  Then, I have sinned.  We are called to think about the good, the blessings, the Blesser, the beauty, His excellencies.  Our response will be praise and rejoicing. 
  5. Phil. 4:9 - Don’t miss this:  If we practice these things, the “God of peace will be with you.”  His answer is even better than peace; God Himself promises His presence.  He alone brings peace, but He also brings Himself as we surrender control.
         “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I say, rejoice!”  Dear Sister, He so desires to draw near to you in 2014.  Pursue Him.  Pursue godliness.  Make Jesus Christ your greatest treasure.  And the “God of peace” will be with you!
          “Turn your eyes upon Jesus.  Look full in His wonderful face.  And the things of earth will grow strangely dim – in the light of His beauty and grace.”